10 things that are holding you back from finding love.

Finding love has become an impossible and elusive dream for many, but it really need not be. Whilst unfortunately there are a lot of shitty people out there, the good uns are out there too but they’re often overlooked. Sometimes we also need to reflect on ourselves and have a look at our own behaviours and ideals which might be holding us back from finding love. Why are you attracting the bad boys or the high maintenance women? Are you only dating a certain type of person? What do you have to offer? Are you even ready for love?

This is by no means blaming yourself. As I said there are many emotionally stunted people out there who make dating difficult, but there are also things that you can do to increase your chances of finding a good and loving partner. Some behaviours and attitudes are subconscious and ingrained by society. Only by looking deep within ourselves can we understand ourselves better and what we can do to improve our lives. So let’s get onto the reasons.

1. Chasing a certain type.

I recently wrote an article about why you should date somebody who isn’t your type…