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6 Differences between genuine nice guys and non-genuine nice guys.
I’ve seen a lot of articles on here about nice guys finishing last. I think that the term "nice" guy is misused. Firstly, what does it mean to be a nice guy? Does it mean loyalty, fidelity, and treating women with respect and kindness? Does it mean being a gentleman and not thinking with your dick?
Being “nice” or “good” can be a surface level thing. We all know that there are some people that can act like nice people but not actually be nice people at all. There are differences between a non-genuine nice guy (NGNG) and a genuine nice guy (GNG). I’m lucky to he with GNG, but I have come across many NGNGs in my time. Even narcissists can disguise themselves as nice guys. Here are the differences between GNGs and NGNGs.
1. NGNGs keep on reminding everyone how “nice” they are.
The NGNG loves to boast about how “nice” he is and will tell everybody about the good deeds he’s done. He’ll tell everybody about the time he saved a cat stuck up a tree or how he helped a little old lady cross the road.
NGNGs are the kind of guys that will know what to do to impress your mum. They’ll lay the charm on thick.
A GNG is the type of guy your mum will like, but because they’re natural and modest and treat you…