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Men these may be the 7 reasons why you’re single.
I’ve written many articles about dating but they’ve mostly been about female dating struggles or dating in general. This one is focused solely on men and behaviours that are keeping them single. I speak from experience as I have many male friends and know many guys who struggle with dating yet they all share certain similarities. Most of them are fed up with being single and are desperate to find a partner yet at the same time I’m not surprised that they’re still single.
Whilst I know that dating isn’t easy and that men struggle too, I believe that both men AND women should take some responsibility. I don’t believe that anybody is too unattractive, unlovable or unworthy of finding love. There’s no doubt it may be harder for certain people but it isn’t impossible. Below are the reasons that may be keeping you single.
1. Lack of willingness to adapt.
Whilst I don’t believe that you should change who you are to find a partner, you have to be willing to adapt and tweak the aspects that are holding you back. It’s not the things that you think like money, height and job.
Many of my guy friends moan about being single yet they don’t approach women and don’t make any effort. They don’t listen to my advice. I give them advice to smile more, compliment women they like and…