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Signs that he’s not into you so you don’t waste time.

Monica Selo
10 min readFeb 28, 2025

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You’re waiting nervously for your phone to ping. You feel like you’re going to burst from anxiety. Every time the phone pings, you think, what if it’s him? Your spirits start to lift but then plummet straight back down to the ground when the message isn’t from the guy you’re seeing, but from your phone provider, sending you a message about the latest deal. We’ve all been there. Unfortunately, I have many times in the past.

Luckily I’m in a relationship with the most amazing guy who treats me with love and respect. I had to kiss many frogs along the way though. Here are the signs that the guy you’re dating, in a situationship with, or even in a relationship with, isn’t into you. Just because you’ve made it to the boyfriend and girlfriend stage, it still doesn’t mean that he’s into you if he treats you like crap. Below are the signs that he’s not into you.

1. He doesn’t initiate messages and/or takes hours or days to reply to texts.

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Unless he’s stuck in an underground cave with no signal or is in a coma, if he’s not messaging you, he’s not into you. Whilst I’m not a lover of WhatsApp and…

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Monica Selo
Monica Selo

Written by Monica Selo

I love writing. I may be controversial but I'm not afraid to say it how it is.

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