The Psychology Behind Bonnie Bonnie.
There’s not a day that goes by where Bonnie Blue isn’t making headlines or making an appearance on a podcast and media channel of some sort. If you’ve never heard of Bonnie Blue, I’ll give you a brief summary. Just to warn you, there’s no going back if you read further 😂.
Bonnie Blue is an Only Fans (OF) content creator and porn star who is notorious for sleeping with “barely legal” teenaged boys and for allegedly sleeping with 1057 men in one day. She has been banned from Australia and Fiji for her sexual stunts.
Bonnie Blue has also stated that she enjoys sleeping with fathers and sons, and she openly condones cheating. She claims that men cheat because their wives are lazy and don’t satisfy them enough. To the women who express outrage at her behaviour and lack of morals, Bonnie simply and very coldly says, “that they’re just Karens and that their boyfriends, husbands and sons love her and she’s probably slept with them.”
Bonnie Blue has been labelled predatory for having sex with boys who have barely turned eighteen years old. She dismisses the moral implications by using the law to justify her actions. She doesn’t seem to understand that just because somebody is legally of age, it doesn’t mean that their mind automatically matures.
An eighteen year old, whether male or female, is barely out of late childhood. Most make poor decisions because their frontal lobe is still not fully developed. They may theoretically be an adult in the eyes of the law, but mentally, they haven’t caught up.
It’s like saying that a twelve year old girl is a woman because she menstruates. Menstruation does not make a girl an adult.
Bonnie Blue shows zero remorse for any of her actions. In fact, she gets off on the rage bait. The woman is thicker skinned and more cold-blooded than a reptile. It’s this ruthless and callous approach that has made her a multi-millionairess. She is one of the top earners in the adult entertainment industry.
Gone are the days when a sex tape and a few tit pics made you easy money. Only Fans is an extremely competitive and oversaturated industry where few content creators will make the big bucks (most earn pittance) unless they really do extreme things and cause controversy.
Bonnie Blue’s earnings have dramatically skyrocketed. At the beginning of the year, she claimed to be making 600k a month, now she claims to be raking in two million a month. Her notoriety has made her insanely rich.
Bonnie Blue’s next sex stunt will include being tied up in a glass box all day and allowing lots of men to fuck her. She will also allow others to come and watch.
The event’s website says: “For 24 hours, I’m all yours. Tied up, gagged, bent over, begging – however you want me, you can have me. No limits. No breaks. Just me, in a box and ready to be used. It’s dirty, intense, and completely open. You can watch, join in, or do both. There will be live shows, group scenes, and plenty of chances to get involved — whether you want to take control or just enjoy the view.”
How could any psychologically healthy woman go through with or even enjoy such extreme sexual stunts? How can she allow and enjoy an endless conveyer belt of men (many who hide their faces with ski masks) to fuck her? Such extreme sexual behaviour screams self-harm.
Bonnie Blue claims that she loves having sex with hundreds and thousands of men and being disrespected by them. She claims that it turns her on. How can any sane woman get off not only on being treated like a piece of meat, but being fucked for hours on end? How can the vagina even withstand that much sex?
Many question the validity of Bonnie Blue’s extreme sexual stunts, especially the over one thousand men in a day challenge. I very much think that these stunts are very real. No gynaecologist or medical professional has publicly stated that these stunts are physically impossible.
Also, we live in a world where sex sells. Bonnie Blue has uploaded all of the evidence onto her OF account where people can pay to see it. Men have openly queued up to have sex with Bonnie Blue. If it wasn’t true or was exaggerated, people wouldn’t pay to watch or they would call her out on her lies. People are paying because they want to watch something extreme and unusual.
Now let’s dive into the psychology of Bonnie Blue and why she does what she does. Unlike many sex workers, Bonnie Blue does not come from a broken home nor has she experienced any trauma. She’s very adamant about the fact that she hasn’t experienced any trauma and that she had a very happy and normal upbringing.
Bonnie Blue comes from a comfortable middle-class background and two parent household. Although she never met her biological father, she considered her stepfather, who came into her life at an early age, to be her father, and he treated her as his own.
By her own admission, Bonnie Blue had a contented life where she had everything she wanted. She was also in a long-term relationship since school with a boy from a good family and whom she went on to marry.
So what went wrong? Bonnie Blue claimed that her now ex-husband encouraged her to do web camming after she felt frustrated with her 9–5 job in recruitment. She enjoyed the thrill of making easy money through web camming. She left web camming to do OF, where she discovered that she could make even more money.
Bonnie Blue is so thirsty for money and fame that she doesn’t care at what price it comes. In her eyes, any publicity is good publicity. Bonnie Blue doesn’t give a damn if you hate and condemn her. Public approval doesn’t matter to her as long as she has her loyal fanbase of gross degenerate men and naive super horny teenaged boys.
Bonnie Blue certainly fits the profile of a narcissist and psychopath. Narcissists and psychopaths have very little to no empathy and exploit others for personal gain.
Bonnie Blue doesn’t have empathy for the wives and girlfriends of the men that she sleeps with. In fact, she blames them for not satisfying their man. She doesn’t have any sense of morality by sleeping with barely legal teenaged boys. She uses the guise of legality to defend her actions. Just because something is legal, it doesn’t make it right.
She takes advantage of these young boys who are horny and desperate to get laid. Bonnie Blue has openly said that she loves taking virginities. She capitalises on their vulnerability and immaturity. Not only are they having sex with a porn star, but the footage of their romp will be on the internet for all to see.
Bonnie Blue is not setting a healthy example of what sex should be like. She claims that she’s educating men and boys about sex and teaching them how to pleasure a woman, but really, what can you learn from a five minute romp? Also it’s extremely difficult to please a woman in that short space of time. She’s also encouraging these boys and men to disrespect her. These impressionable teenage boys will develop even more warped ideas about sex.
Delusions of grandeur are one of the common signs of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissists have false and inflated beliefs about themselves. They believe that they are important, special, and superior despite there being no evidence of this.
Bonnie Blue is acting like she’s some kind of saviour who is doing men and boys such a huge favour. She’s giving married men a sexual release and is teaching boys about sex. She cares about consent and abiding by the law; the men and boys who sleep with her need to show ID.
Bonnie Blue is delusional. She doesn’t care about the people that she sleeps with or the barely legal boys that she claims to educate. She’s making money off of them and is contributing towards them forming negative and unhealthy sexual behaviours and views. Bonnie Blue is by no means making the world a better place; she’s contributing to and encouraging social issues such as reliance on porn and hook up culture.
Bonnie Blue also probably enjoys the validation that these men and boys give her. It boosts her ego that hundreds and thousands of boys and men are that desperate at a chance to sleep with her, going as far as queuing for hours. She feels untouchable that all of these men desire her, even if it’s just for sex. Bonnie Blue is not interested in forming a genuine connection with anybody. Ironically, she probably can’t handle real intimacy and is unable to form a proper bond.
A common sign of psychopathy is the inability to form genuine bonds with people. Yes, she has been married, but many psychopaths are married. It doesn’t mean that they feel love or have a real bond with their spouse.
The vast majority of women (I’d go as far as to say over 99%) would feel extreme physical and psychological distress at sleeping with such a sheer volume of men and being treated like a piece of meat, but Bonnie Blue seems completely unaffected. It’s also common for psychopaths not to feel any emotion or distress. They’re emotionally indifferent.
Bonnie Blue has reached the heights that she has because of her ruthlessness, lack of emotion and empathy, and extreme sexuality. Whilst sex has always sold, not many porn stars and sex workers are able to go to the extreme lengths that Bonnie Blue has gone to. Bonnie Blue wouldn’t be earning multi-millions from the porn industry if she had a conscience or some iota of morality. Nor would she be so successful without her shrewd and ruthless business acumen.
Psychopaths are not just serial killers that you hear about on crime podcasts. They’re successful business people who work corporate jobs and have made millions. Psychopaths can also be ordinary people who earn an ordinary wage. Females can also be psychopaths.
Bonnie Blue fits the criteria of a narcissist and psychopath. Whilst I definitely don’t think that she’s the violent killer type of psychopath or one that breaks the law, she is dangerous in her own way. She is a danger to society, boys and men. She contributes to the moral decay of society. She has used her huge platform to promote porn and degeneracy as well as reinforce damaging and toxic sexual views and behaviours, including creating a disposable and dehumanising sex culture. These boys and men look up to her, and some girls and women hope that they, too, can make millions by being porn and OF stars.
Unfortunately psychopathy and narcissism cannot be treated. It’s highly unlikely that Bonnie Blue will develop a conscience. The psychology behind Bonnie Blue is one that is fascinating and scary and should ultimately be studied in depth by psychologists and psychiatrists.
Most importantly it should serve as a message that we should protect society from depraved predators like Bonnie Blue and take away their platforms. However, Bonnie Blue is only part of a wider issue; the wider issue being the porn industry and societal views on sex and relationships.
What are your views on Bonnie Blue and this article? Do you think that she’s a psychopath and narcissist? Let me know in the comments.
