Why it’s so difficult for many women to find a man.

Monica Selo
11 min readJan 2, 2024

It’s no secret that modern dating is a disheartening, frustrating and anxiety inducing endeavour. The age of dating apps has made it easier for people to be deceptive and cruel, coupled with the fact that we live in a superficial and throw-away society. I want to start off by saying that this is not a man-hating article. I’m not blaming ALL men and I’m aware that women behave just as badly. I’m sure that there are many decent men out there, but the majority of them are already taken or extremely hard to find. Even guys that do seem decent initially can turn out to be not so decent. Many of my female friends also struggle as well and face the same problems.

There are many men who complain about being single, but the reason that they’re single can be because they’re self-destructive and are looking for something they isn’t realistic. This article is also out there for guys who are single and display the behaviours below. Perhaps these behaviours would be a bit more understandable in young guys in their 20’s, but many of them are in their 30’s, 40’s and older. Like I said this article doesn’t apply to all men- women can be just as toxic too. This article is based on mine and my friends’ experiences. It would also be interesting to hear from men’s dating experiences as well. Below are the reasons why many single women struggle with dating.

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Monica Selo

I love writing. I may be controversial but I'm not afraid to say it how it is.